Berri
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 Posted: Wed Oct 25, 2006 9:17 am Post subject: Message from Twins Charlene |
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A Message From Ah Sa "in life l'm not scared of growing old or fat"
“Each person from different stages of life would do different things. I am 24 years old, and I believe from now until I am 30 years old, I will put work first. Perhaps, when I’m 30 years old, I will start a family; at 36 years old, I will travel. I am a young girl, but there are different types of young girls. Being a young girl does not only consist of the types that desire dating, there are also many young girls that like to work. It was not easy to get to the accomplishment I have now. Working so hard all these years, I will not let my accomplishments fade away, so right now, work is very important for me.
At this stage, I do not feel particularly strong about not wanting or wanting to date. There are many things in the world that are already meant to be and can not be avoided, so I will just let it be. To tell the truth, at this stage, it’s very important to think clearly about dating, and not let love affect the career, and it can not be just for play. If I let a love relationship start, the love relationship must be very serious.
I used witty ideas to do every thing, and it is the same for love. I will try to not let one issue affect another issue. Actually when I dated before, I am those that are “into boyfriends than friends” type, but I will get my friends to understand me and not lie to me. When it comes to dating, it is important to understand when to grasp the opportunity, when to let go, and it doesn’t need an ulterior method (not really sure how to explain “shou duin”). Even if it’s an old couple, it is necessary to understand to let go and let the other person do what they want to do. When it is a romantic time, it is important to cherish the relationship. I hope the opposite [person for her] will have the same thoughts. It is a very difficult idea, so I don’t want to worry about it now.
As for picking the opposite partner, the most important thing is I like them. If I like them, then everything is OK. If I do not like the person, and they do things that I would like, I will still not like them. I hope dating would be fun and have a good relationship. I really dislike those that are ?? (pity that I don’t know what the phrase meant lol), those that blame heaven and earth, those that think the whole world is after them. (wonder if it’s any of the celebrities she’s talking about…funny description though lol)
I am a very traditional person, and I will get married. I feel that at a certain age, women have to fulfill different responsibilities, such as being a good wife, cleaning, taking care of the kids, and cooking. I believe that it is a hard accomplishment for many women, and I feel that I should do it too, which I feel would be an improvement (not too clear about this phrase). I am not afraid of being old because everyone will have to go through that stage. I am thinking, when I’m 30, and I will need to act mom roles. I do not wish to be 40 before I take care of kids (not too sure about this either). I am not afraid of being old or fat, just afraid that I will not be happy.
I’ve decided to have two children in the future, one boy one girl. Before, I wanted to have a boy first, but now I want a girl first because I’ve always wanted a big brother when I was young, and feel that a big brother would take care of the young sister. However, meeting different people, I found that a big sister can take care of the younger brother. Usually the older brother will not take care of the younger sister, and when they grow up, they try to be in charge. Anyway, I want to have two kids. “
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